My lass's dilemma...
15th July 2005, Friday
End of the work week already and on personal, not a very productive and fulfilling one...
Perhaps been mentally eaten up by the anticipation of going for my vacation..
Don't know why feel like my right cervical node (the lymph node located behind the jaws, above the neck) would have a transient pain coming on and off, accompanied with a bout of migraine on my right cranium as well..well if the problem persist would maybe visit the GP coming Monday..and hopefully spend a bit of time with my lass...
Talking about my girl she seemed to be bothered by a few issues on her hands...
Firstly a quick resolution of whether would she jump ship to another company of the same nature or remains at her current post...
It seems like she has been pretty fustrated with the incompetant management at her side for a while now and the window of opportunity was opened to her when the company she used to attached to during her school days came calling for her service...
In fact her Korean mentor then also "head-hunted" her to come under his wings as he decided to start up a brand new semi-conductor manufacture company in Singapore...
The last choice was an appealing as she always has high regards and respect for her Korean mentor. The stumbling block is the fact that to get the start-up company onto the right track, it will translate to endless hours of slogging which my girlfriend is uncomfortable about especially now fresh from her Kuala Lumpur seminar, she has a well rejuvenated belief to succeed in her sidelines, so as would not be tied down doing shifts for the rest of her working life, and eventually might strain relationships with her family members...
The decision now swings to the original head-huntee but a piece of advice from the same Korean mentor gave a rude awakening of the other company is actually a carbon copy of the situation of her current status..full of blinded office politics and restricted opportunities to acquitted with new technology which she is always craving for...Thus with that in mind, she just would stay put for a few more years, at least she would have to go through the hassle of staying afresh in a brand new environment while allowing her time to focus on her sidelines even more...
Now the job issue aside, it seems like her family which is on the brink of breaking up could actually suffer the brunt of her parents' marriage which is already on the rocks...
Her dad could virtually stay away from home for days with working as his excuse while her mom just buried herself in her own job and seemed unmotivated to ressurect her fledging marriage...
Her 2 younger brothers seem to be more interested with their own well-beings, leaving her to fight a lone battle to restore her shattered family unit..
Well there's actually so much she could do especially now with her tight schedule.
In fact her main aim now is to be the emtional pillar in case her mother would actually break down..
I felt sad for her, and hopefully my presence and support could be enough to see her through the ordeal and hopefully the "surprise" I'm going to present to her could be a catalyst of better things to come....
Well as mentioned yesterday, Wil was the one ousted from "Rock Star:INXS" despite a pretty cool rendition of INXS' own hit, "Need You Tonight" but seriously that guy is a dead log on stage.. a bit more well suited for jazz singers like perhaps Micheal Buble...
The final charity concert went on as well despite the resignation of the shamed CEO with her board members but they refused to canvas for donations...
But the Taiwanese compere who had been an ardent ambassador seemingly was fuming as he muttered his parting words, "You all can forget about the number to call for donation but I will always remember in my heart, and that's the most important"...
Well it seems like the chapter would come to a close now, but is it?
End of the work week already and on personal, not a very productive and fulfilling one...
Perhaps been mentally eaten up by the anticipation of going for my vacation..
Don't know why feel like my right cervical node (the lymph node located behind the jaws, above the neck) would have a transient pain coming on and off, accompanied with a bout of migraine on my right cranium as well..well if the problem persist would maybe visit the GP coming Monday..and hopefully spend a bit of time with my lass...
Talking about my girl she seemed to be bothered by a few issues on her hands...
Firstly a quick resolution of whether would she jump ship to another company of the same nature or remains at her current post...
It seems like she has been pretty fustrated with the incompetant management at her side for a while now and the window of opportunity was opened to her when the company she used to attached to during her school days came calling for her service...
In fact her Korean mentor then also "head-hunted" her to come under his wings as he decided to start up a brand new semi-conductor manufacture company in Singapore...
The last choice was an appealing as she always has high regards and respect for her Korean mentor. The stumbling block is the fact that to get the start-up company onto the right track, it will translate to endless hours of slogging which my girlfriend is uncomfortable about especially now fresh from her Kuala Lumpur seminar, she has a well rejuvenated belief to succeed in her sidelines, so as would not be tied down doing shifts for the rest of her working life, and eventually might strain relationships with her family members...
The decision now swings to the original head-huntee but a piece of advice from the same Korean mentor gave a rude awakening of the other company is actually a carbon copy of the situation of her current status..full of blinded office politics and restricted opportunities to acquitted with new technology which she is always craving for...Thus with that in mind, she just would stay put for a few more years, at least she would have to go through the hassle of staying afresh in a brand new environment while allowing her time to focus on her sidelines even more...
Now the job issue aside, it seems like her family which is on the brink of breaking up could actually suffer the brunt of her parents' marriage which is already on the rocks...
Her dad could virtually stay away from home for days with working as his excuse while her mom just buried herself in her own job and seemed unmotivated to ressurect her fledging marriage...
Her 2 younger brothers seem to be more interested with their own well-beings, leaving her to fight a lone battle to restore her shattered family unit..
Well there's actually so much she could do especially now with her tight schedule.
In fact her main aim now is to be the emtional pillar in case her mother would actually break down..
I felt sad for her, and hopefully my presence and support could be enough to see her through the ordeal and hopefully the "surprise" I'm going to present to her could be a catalyst of better things to come....
Well as mentioned yesterday, Wil was the one ousted from "Rock Star:INXS" despite a pretty cool rendition of INXS' own hit, "Need You Tonight" but seriously that guy is a dead log on stage.. a bit more well suited for jazz singers like perhaps Micheal Buble...
The final charity concert went on as well despite the resignation of the shamed CEO with her board members but they refused to canvas for donations...
But the Taiwanese compere who had been an ardent ambassador seemingly was fuming as he muttered his parting words, "You all can forget about the number to call for donation but I will always remember in my heart, and that's the most important"...
Well it seems like the chapter would come to a close now, but is it?
Japanese word of the day: 仕事 ~shi-go-to~ (Job) My girlfriend has a definte anwser of which one she is choosing.
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